Tuesday, May 8, 2007

people who lack originality piss me off!!!

Some people just don't seem to get that they can't/shouldn't be enacting other peoples lives.These people,who suddenly lose themselves and whatever little's left of they're minuscule brains,tend to copy an be like those around them.If you have been a victim to someone like this,you will surely know that the 'copying' and 'enacting' of your life by one of your*ahem* acqaintainces can range from the person speaking EXACTLY the way you do,trying and failing to swear like you,suddenly liking everything you do and telling other common friends about these passions, dressing the SAME way you do,steal your opinions about the latest music or other such things that you might be enlightened about(although they have no idea about it)and simply go around discussing it with other people right in front of you,randomly adding people on your contact list and tellin them that they're 'good' friends of yours!(this will only embarrass you further!)it can be inevitably irritating when such things happen,and at first you may ignore it...but THEN it becomes regular,and you start feeling the following things:
1)you feel like you don't exist.it feels lik somethings been stolen from you.
2)you feel various degrees of unclothed anger and this is when you start to hate the person.
3)you have no problem in openly declaring to your closest friends about how you feel
4)you want this person to be eliminated from existence.
By the time you start feeling all these feelings those close companions and everyone else who knows you very well would have realised(by now) the cause of your despair(remember that you are truly blessed if you have these people who understand you completely,whom you love and who love you in return,because if you are in a new place and you know very few people your position will not be considered,and the 'copier' might even get applauded for the improvement of his/her persona,and other vital aspects of his/her character)and the copier will be shown his/her place.the copier will not be encouraged and will be called a'loser'.
You did not mean for this to happen,you did not mean to insult anyone,you are not a haughty,so called somebody who goes around bullying people,you do not have an attitude thats bulging,but yet you have managed to cause someone pain,you have made someone feel like they do not belong....now these might..jus MIGHT be the feelings that you may have to encounter in the aftermath of completely extinguishing all traits and signs of your borrowed mind and thouhghts in the copier.this persons not your best friend,not someone you may care about in particular,jus an acquaintaince i.e someone with whom you are forced to spend time with on a regular/daily basis.
This may not sound like the nicest thing to say,but i hate..HATE people who try to mould themselves as the persons they are not and cannot be,whats more alarming is that they do this deliberately!!i agree that a few things from other people around you eventually slip into you with ease..but not everything!!!not the small details..there are certain manners of speech and behaviour that are exclusive to each individual,that CANNOT BE fabricated,and should not be done..its like trying to steal a whole person,like pirating people!!borrowing other peoples thoughts,ideas..using them as your own and maybe even adding your own little something to it is very degrading.its not idol worship,you are not someone this person adores or feels any attachment for, infact you share a very frigid relationship..and it doesnt really warm up when you realise you're being carbon copied..in a pathetic manner..because nothing can ever replicate an original.

If you have been a victim to a personality-snatcher/person with no originality whatsoever,you will understand what i'm trying to convey.

*this is dedicated to my friend devathi*

2 comments:

Devathi said...

Yeah, they piss me off too! Aargh....!

COPIERS!! Hahaha. Love that word! Oh and 'pirating people'.. I love that thought too!!!

Ayy man, I kinda feel bad for personality-snatchers cause they're so... lost?! I mean, they don't even know who they are, which is why they tend to try to be like someone else. To make matters worse, when you try to reason with them, they just get all upset.

Sheesh...! We have both been victims and it just sucks. We should seriously figure out a way to put an end to this.

Limoncello said...

*poke*
do you ever check this?